Wait... could she be trying to tell you something?

Ask yourself these questions to decide if you may be a stalker

• Do you find yourself calling people three, four, five times ... even after they haven't returned a phone call?
• How about the endless text messaging or emailing to someone even when there's no responses to any of them?

There Are Many Different Ways That Someone Can Be a Stalker

There's the scary Glenn Close type from Fatal Attraction who has a penchant for boiling bunny rabbits and jumping out of bathtubs.

There's the creepy ex against whom you have to get a restraining order to stop them from coming over to your house.

Then there is the form of stalker no one talks about. It's usually the man or woman who doesn't understand that when a person does not respond after the second phone message, text message or email, that the person is no longer interested.

One Rule Everyone Should Follow 

I'm not very big into rules, but there is one by which I think everyone should abide: If you've left a few messages for someone and they haven't called you back, then (borrowing from an old dating book) he's (or she's) just not that into you.

As Miranda on Sex & The City once told a group of women sitting on the library steps, if you leave a couple of messages for a man and he doesn't call you back, he's just not that into you. The problem is that they should have left it as a Sex & The City episode.

That book had one piece of good advice. The rest of it is annoying.

Plain and simple: If you're a man who leaves a woman a few messages and she doesn't call you back, you're done.

If you text her several times and she doesn't respond, you're done. Technology didn't stop working. Her fingers simply stopped responding to you.